Musings from the dogpound

Thursday, January 26, 2006

Dirty laundry

It was just after lunch and I was pacing from window to window like a nervous school girl awaiting her first date. Finally it came into view, lumbering down our street, the truck from our local appliance store. It stopped hesitantly in front of our house which started the dogs barking and Phillip jumping up and down shouting "they're here, they're here!".

We had entered our local appliance store on Saturday morning filled with anticipation at the prospect of purchasing a new washer and dryer. Our old ones had come with the house, and had no doubt been purchased by the previous owners when they had the house built in 1987. They had served us well for the past eight years, but we were beginning to feel that they were running on borrowed time. With the promise of a modest bonus on the horizon for Rob we decided to be proactive and make the purchase before our current machines died. We chose to patronize our local appliance store instead of a "big box" store for a few reasons. First and foremost, our local store delivers, sets up the new appliances, and takes the old ones away, all for free. Second, the guy who runs the store is a local guy who has been doing this his whole life. He is a wealth of knowledge, has used most of the products that he sells at one time or another, and is not afraid to give you all the information on any given product, the good, the bad, and the ugly. Finally, the thought of going to a big store with three children and trying to make an informed decision on a fairly major purchase was less than appealing. Yes, local is good.

My criteria for the new appliances were fairly simple. I wanted a washer that would not suck our clothes under the agitator leaving them with streaks of grease on them, and a dryer that would dry our clothes in less than three sixty minute cycles. We had done a little bit of research on our own, and the thought of a front loading washer was somewhat appealing, primarily due to the absence of an agitator. Mark, the appliance guy, listed off six to eight things about a front loading washer that in his opinion made them superior to a top loader. When he was finished we asked him about the other side of the coin, surely there were drawbacks. He could only provide us with one, "front loaders tend to be more expensive than top loaders". Given the list of good things he had just told us about front loaders we refused to be scared off on price alone. He led us to a very nice looking GE washer and dryer pair, and told us that those were his favorites at the moment. He said that GE was the last to enter the front loading washer market, so they learned a lot from the mistakes of their competitors. Beside this pair was a very impressive GE upright washer with its matching dryer. He said that machine had been marketed by GE as the "top loader that thinks it's a front loader" due to its lack of an agitator (but did I really want an appliance that suffers from schizophrenia?). This impressive duo was linked together by what he referred to as an "umbilical cord", so that the dryer would know what was in the washer, how much moisture was left in the load, and when to expect the clothes, so that it could "prepare" for the incoming load. I was more than a little intimidated at the thought of my dryer sitting in the basement, patiently tapping its perfectly balanced foot, waiting for me to descend the stairs and move the laundry into it from the washer so that it could go about its business. I had visions of it calling upstairs to me "Hey lady, this load of wash has been sitting here for four hours waiting to be put into me so I can dry it. If I could move it myself I would, but I can't, so shake a leg, would ya?". I mentally crossed the schizophrenic washer and too-smart-for-its-own-good dryer off my list of possibilities.

In the end we decided on the GE front loader and matching dryer that Mark recommended. GE has a very nice policy about returning any appliance within thirty days for any reason with no charge and a full refund, so if we decide we don't like this pair P Appliance will pick them up and we can start over. I did my first load of laundry last night, and so far so good. The washer appeared to know that it was a front loader, there was no sign of a split personality. And the dryer, while clearly intelligent (it has a setting where you can tell it to stop when it senses the load is dry instead of just setting it for a specific amount of time), does not appear to have the unsettling ability to judge me or my tardiness in moving the load from one machine to the next. (Although I will admit last night I was riveted to the washer as I watched the estimated minutes remaining count down on the aesthetically pleasing digital display. No sooner did the stainless steel drum stop spinning and the door unlock then I was moving the contents to the dryer.) Somewhere deep inside me is the shadow of my sixteen year old self, no doubt weeping at the thought of me being so giddy over a new washer and dryer...

Saturday, January 07, 2006

2005

For the last five years my family has all gone out to a restaurant together after the holidays. It is typically the only time we are together during the year when we're not at someone's house so everybody gets to enjoy themselves. This tradition started in January 2002 when we all gathered to celebrate the 25th wedding anniversary of my brother and sister-in-law. The following year found us celebrating my parent's 50th wedding anniversary. After two years of celebrating we decided it was so much fun we needed to do it every year. Tonight was the night we gathered together to celebrate nothing more than surviving another year. In honor of tonight's dinner I wrote a sort of retrospective of 2005...

2005

2005 started out cold,
Especially at Floyd’s house
So I was told
At Windows we froze
The heat was unseen
So this year we’ll kick off
At the Silver Tureen
Now as we all gather
In good health and good cheer
Let’s take a look back
At a pretty good year…

A sweet babe we welcomed into our fold
In a hurry to get here a joy to behold
Sweet Bella’s a treasure, a girl like no other
And she’s lucky to have the best sister and brother
Kylie and Phillip are second to none
Spending their days playing games, having fun
Sometimes they disagree, sometimes they whine
But most of the time they get along fine
Edie and Robbie built their addition
We hope the kids like it, we spent their tuition.

On Wyndegate Drive some changes took place
Floyd and Gail took some time to jazz up their space
New windows, wallpaper, floors, carpets and deck
Some money was left so they said what the heck
Ash got her license, lets buy her some wheels
Now she can drive home when they kick up their heels
Kayla kept busy with babysitting and soccer
Soon she’ll be moving stuff to a high school locker

Cherie and Mike brought home little Pip
A cute little pup with a bum little hip
Nobody is sure for how long she did roam
But she and Chawi are happy that she now has a home.
Cherie turned fifty and did it with grace
With a drink in her hand and a smile on her face.
We celebrated in style, a night fit for a queen
Complete with a shiny black stretch limousine

Ross finished high school and went off to college
To join brother Chris in pursuing more knowledge
Boyd and Brenda were ready for a bit of a rest
And adjusted quite well to their now empty nest
They find themselves busy, there’s still lots to do
When you go from a household of four down to two
This year finds them headed off on a cruise
I hope Boyd finds a way to smuggle some booze

Mom and Dad kept from getting lazy and fat
Busy with grandkids, Shriners, and gals in red hats
They had a good year with one minor glitch
In Poppa’s heart they found a small hitch
It was a rough time but look at him now
Now let’s take a moment to thank the poor cow…

Heidi and Isabelle, Anna and Chris
To not mention you would make this remiss
You’re all family too and we’re glad that you’re here
To join in this evening of fun and good cheer.

This family’s unique, so is everyone in it
And I wouldn’t change a thing, not for a minute.
So let’s raise a glass to welcome this year
Let’s hope next year finds us healthy and here!

Sunday, January 01, 2006

Pictures


A few pictures to accompany the most recent post (for some reason I wasn't able to include them in the post itself):


Mr. D's sunset

Bella and Ross (her favorite muppet!)

Our finished mudroom

My elves...the reasons I will believe next Christmas

Christmas

The Christmas tree lays forlornly on the deck, stripped of its colored lights, silver beads, blown glass and precious home-made ornaments. The mantle sits bare above the woodstove, no longer the resting place for garland, sparkling lights, and assorted Christmas characters. Snowmen, santas, reindeer, and other seasonal trimmings are tucked snugly back in their boxes, patiently awaiting their return to the storage area over the TV room which will be their home for the next eleven months. Another Christmas has passed.

Like most things in life, this Christmas was a combination of good and bad. Fortunately the good far outweighed the bad. Unfortunately some days I allowed the bad to overshadow the good and steal some of the joy away from what is typically my favorite time of year. Primarily the bad boils down to the fact that we were just too busy. The long list of things that had to be done in the weeks leading up to Christmas led to far too many late nights, early mornings, and hectic days. The good is easy, our family was blessed to celebrate Christmas together and in good health.

There are things from this Christmas season that will stand out in my mind forever.

  • This was the first year that Kylie wanted to use her own money to buy presents for Robbie and me. She was determined to get her own gifts for us, and all attempts by us to dissuade her from doing so were unsuccessful. For her Dad she decided to get a Dunkin' Donuts gift card, and for me she chose body lotion, which she also wrapped herself. She was so proud of those gifts that she insisted we open them two days before Christmas, she just couldn't wait any longer. She understands that we give gifts to each other, and that sometimes we have to help Santa Claus, and she still believes in Santa. I hope that she still believes next year.
  • One snowy afternoon I was trying to address Christmas cards, feed Bella, fix dinner, make calls to arrange for Kylie's school party, and give the kids a bath. Kylie was in the tub and Phillip was waiting for his turn. I had put a Christmas cd on the stereo and Elton John came on singing "Step Into Christmas". All of a sudden I couldn't help myself, I cranked the volume up, grabbed Phillip, and started dancing around the dining room with him. By the time the song was done Phillip was giggling so hard he couldn't catch his breath, Bella was laughing at us from her high chair, and Kylie was hollering for me to get her out of the tub so she could dance too. I wish I had danced more this season - maybe next year.
  • Losing Mr. D. He passed away early on the morning of December 8th. Later that morning my Mom said that she had been planning to put her lights out that day but under the circumstances she didn't know if that was appropriate. I encouraged her to do it, reminding her that Mr. D enjoyed the decorations and would be upset to think that she hadn't put them out because of him. I told her that she should light the place up so that he could look down from heaven and say "there's Phil and Betty's place!". Since my Dad was still recovering from his surgery I helped my Mom decorate their pole light and back deck, and hang the kissing ball over the front door. Their house looked beautiful, glowing with Christmas cheer. The next day we were hit with a snowstorm that started at 7:00 am and dropped 17" of snow before ending around 4:00 that afternoon. The sky cleared immediately, and we were treated to one of the most spectacular sunsets I have ever seen following a snowstorm. I told my Mom that was Mr. D's way of saying "you guys lit it up down there, I'm taking care of things up here".
  • Bella's first Christmas. The look on her face Christmas morning as she (with a little assistance from me) unwrapped an Elmo piano was priceless. As the keys lit up and Elmo's head bobbed along with the tune she grinned from ear to ear, bouncing along with Elmo. That moment was surpassed only by her delight in discovering that her cousin Ross is a living, breathing muppet. She was fascinated by his unruly hair and beard, taking several opportunities on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day to rub her face alongside his - truly priceless.
  • Wallpapering the mudroom. It was our desire that the mudroom be "finished" for the Christmas Eve party. About two weeks before the party I made peace with the idea that the room would not be papered, we simply didn't have the time to get it done. Rob, however, was determined. We started wallpapering at 9:30 pm on the Thursday before Christmas. We finished the top half of the room at 4:00 am on Friday. We picked up where we left off Friday night, resuming wallpapering at 9:00 pm, and finished the room at 3:30 am Saturday. Later that day Rob put up the chair rail and mop-board, and the mudroom was officially declared "finished".
  • The scene in my parents living room on Christmas morning. This was truly the best gift of all. My entire family was assembled together, sprawling from one side of the room to the other. The room was filled with the sounds of laughter and orders being taken for mimosas, the smell of monkey bread, quiche, and pork pie baking in the oven, little piles of shredded wrapping paper and discarded ribbons, and love.

My goal for next Christmas is to enjoy the season more. It will be my brother's turn to host the Christmas Eve party, so that will ease much of the burden we shouldered this year. I am determined to do more shopping throughout the year instead of waiting until after Thanksgiving when people are usually ready to respond to my request for lists (in fact I have already started my shopping for next Christmas and have taken care of my sister and one sister-in-law!!). Next Christmas I will dance more, laugh more, enjoy more. I will believe in the magic of Christmas, I will believe in Santa Claus, I will believe...